TEENAGE LOVE IS ATTRACTION

We all have experienced love during our teenage. This love adds happiness and beauty to our lives. We have loved and been loved. It teaches us how to care carelessly.

Teenage is transitional phase in everyone’s life and in this age we start getting attracted from one’s smile , looks , and personality . But remember lust is what attraction is and love is all different.

WHAT NUMBERS SAY ?
IN 2012 , among 80% people experienced breakup during teenage in HONGKONG and AUSTRALIA .

According to a study , young people feel stress without a gf/bf .
Infatuation lasts only for 4 months . If you are still the same person after 4 months , then YOU ARE IN LOVE .

WAIT , LETS TAKE A DEEP DIVE
Teenage is a age where most of the development occurs be it mental or social . Most of the teenage fantasize a lot at this age , not fully mature to take independent decisions but they try to take . A teenager wants to see him/herself at apex of everything , they want to be a movie star like , singham , or beautiful as kylie or katrina . Media , youtube , tiktok affect teens and distracts them in many ways .
Teenage attraction is not a new phenomenon , but nowadays even little chidren are having crushes on celebrities or someone else . Meditation can be the best method to control emotions but being in love is not a bad thing . Its just that teenage is not a right time to ponder over in love . I have seen many people falling blindly in love and then facing the consequences for same and on the other hand some fall in love just by instagram follow request or tinder . Teenage is the age where teenagers should take rational decisions in terms of their careers and choosing right things to chase their dreams .
Having a life partner becomes psychological need but choosing the right time can make things perfect .

BRIGHTER SIDE
You always have someone to hang out with .
You accomplish your goals with the person you love .
You have the person with whom you can share your happiness .
You get to plan your future together .

DARKER SIDE
You might lose some good friends .
You may get sad for some silly reasons .
You may have to miss some things .

CONCLUSION
AGE does not matter in love , but teenagers may not have that strong mind which can feel the real meaning of love and they may have breakup in future . Since their mind is not strong enough to accept this , they may move into depression .
Whether its teenage or adulthood , love is true . If its not LOVE, then it is not true .

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